Are men attracted to natural redheads? Or repelled? (22)

I have been a shy redheaded woman all my life and have observed my hair color to be off-putting to the opposite sex. Maybe I'm projecting my own insecurities, but it seems like my hair color turns heads but repels any actual contact or interest. I am stared at, but never approached.

Why is that? Is it my redheadedness or how awfully shy I might be?

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I have been a shy redheaded woman all my life and have observed my hair color to be off-putting to the opposite sex. Maybe I'm projecting my own insecurities, but it seems like my hair color turns heads but repels any actual contact or interest. I am stared at, but never approached.

Why is that? Is it my redheadedness or how awfully shy I might be?

Without seeing you photo or having in-person interaction with you. I can only say in-general. That i have Dated Several Redheads through the years.
I may Notice a Redhead but
many factors are considered
Any More
before I approach any woman.
Is she Approachable ?
Does she Smile at or Approach me ?
I ALSO AM VERY SHY
I might suggest
Show a Little Interest
Then
You are Much More Likely to Receive a Little Interest in you.

Just being there IS NOT Enough
You Must Engage, Participate / Interact


It is NOT the Colour of your Hair, that Determines IF I would Approach you OR NOT

Definitely attracted, but as your other commenter noted, just an encouraging smile or a wink, will get a man to approach.Natural redheads are gorgeous !

I love women! If you red hair black hair brown hair dont matter. As long as it looks good and its clean!

Redheads are very appealing. Different body and skin chemistry thank any other hair/skin colors.

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I have been a shy redheaded woman all my life and have observed my hair color to be off-putting to the opposite sex. Maybe I'm projecting my own insecurities, but it seems like my hair color turns heads but repels any actual contact or interest. I am stared at, but never approached.

Why is that? Is it my redheadedness or how awfully shy I might be?

Try posting a pic and we will tell you.

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I have been a shy redheaded woman all my life and have observed my hair color to be off-putting to the opposite sex. Maybe I'm projecting my own insecurities, but it seems like my hair color turns heads but repels any actual contact or interest. I am stared at, but never approached.

Why is that? Is it my redheadedness or how awfully shy I might be?

Resisting telling a terrible redhead joke... Without seeing you it is difficult to say why it might seem to be that way. 1 Possibility, however, is that redheads have a reputation for being a bit firey/saucy in some dumb urban legend type of way. Problem with made up stereotypical garbage like that is that even if it's super rare, there's always at least some truth.
So maybe they're intimidated.

I love red hair. It alone isn't enough to make me interested in dating someone. But if everything else was the same, I would choose the redhead over all others. A little bit of a fetish of mine.

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I have been a shy redheaded woman all my life and have observed my hair color to be off-putting to the opposite sex. Maybe I'm projecting my own insecurities, but it seems like my hair color turns heads but repels any actual contact or interest. I am stared at, but never approached.

Why is that? Is it my redheadedness or how awfully shy I might be?

As it has already been mentioned, its not about the hair color, shades of red hair can be absolutely gorgeous! It's also about personality and personal preference. What one person may see as attractive another might not. Have confidence in yourself and just be you, and someone who appreciates you for being you will find you, so don't stop looking!

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I have been a shy redheaded woman all my life and have observed my hair color to be off-putting to the opposite sex. Maybe I'm projecting my own insecurities, but it seems like my hair color turns heads but repels any actual contact or interest. I am stared at, but never approached.

Why is that? Is it my redheadedness or how awfully shy I might be?

I think that: either it does not matter, or it might be a plus.
(Meanwhile, I am in California and 79 years old.)

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I have been a shy redheaded woman all my life and have observed my hair color to be off-putting to the opposite sex. Maybe I'm projecting my own insecurities, but it seems like my hair color turns heads but repels any actual contact or interest. I am stared at, but never approached.

Why is that? Is it my redheadedness or how awfully shy I might be?

. Attracted to most definitely

Red heads are my weakness. For some reason I find them the most attractive

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I have been a shy redheaded woman all my life and have observed my hair color to be off-putting to the opposite sex. Maybe I'm projecting my own insecurities, but it seems like my hair color turns heads but repels any actual contact or interest. I am stared at, but never approached.

Why is that? Is it my redheadedness or how awfully shy I might be?

i guess it would be something else in my opinion which it shouldn't matter that much

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I have been a shy redheaded woman all my life and have observed my hair color to be off-putting to the opposite sex. Maybe I'm projecting my own insecurities, but it seems like my hair color turns heads but repels any actual contact or interest. I am stared at, but never approached.

Why is that? Is it my redheadedness or how awfully shy I might be?

I for one love a red head. Even if she dyes her hair. Born red head just turn me on. Yes Indeed!:

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I have been a shy redheaded woman all my life and have observed my hair color to be off-putting to the opposite sex. Maybe I'm projecting my own insecurities, but it seems like my hair color turns heads but repels any actual contact or interest. I am stared at, but never approached.

Why is that? Is it my redheadedness or how awfully shy I might be?

In my experience red heads are fiesty, more outgoing, and honestly (there are exclusions to every rule) a little more crazy than other females, with that crazy comes a more adventurous sensual appetite.
Women that color their hair red have the same tendencies or relate with them subconsciously or consciously, is a more daring color that shows the world how adventurous they are.
Just one guys opinion.
Hope it helps.

That is just in your head. I love a redhead just something about that is oh so sexy and hot. Just give yourself positive energy and vibes escape the negativity and try to open up a bit. If you were closer to me I’d probably ask you out but unfortunately I’m in California. Good luck positive vibes your way and enjoy your day.

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I have been a shy redheaded woman all my life and have observed my hair color to be off-putting to the opposite sex. Maybe I'm projecting my own insecurities, but it seems like my hair color turns heads but repels any actual contact or interest. I am stared at, but never approached.

Why is that? Is it my redheadedness or how awfully shy I might be?

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I have been a shy redheaded woman all my life and have observed my hair color to be off-putting to the opposite sex. Maybe I'm projecting my own insecurities, but it seems like my hair color turns heads but repels any actual contact or interest. I am stared at, but never approached.

Why is that? Is it my redheadedness or how awfully shy I might be?

I can’t say red hair and green eyes are sexy to me

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I have been a shy redheaded woman all my life and have observed my hair color to be off-putting to the opposite sex. Maybe I'm projecting my own insecurities, but it seems like my hair color turns heads but repels any actual contact or interest. I am stared at, but never approached.

Why is that? Is it my redheadedness or how awfully shy I might be?

Hello, I'm Robert. I saw your profile and would like to chat and get to know each other. Have a great weekend

The "try to fit in" part of our personalities makes us sometimes perceive what makes us different or unique from others as something that is to be hidden or not fully embraced. When its our individuality, our diversity, our uniqueness, that makes us different, interesting, rare--that is our true value. Embracing that part of our selves is part of life, and the better you embrace and accept who you are, the better your quality of life is. Its likely some combination of dynamically changing composition depending on any number of variables, at any given time. Perception can change and perspective can make what once was thought of as a hinderance or obstacle, can be embraced and empower you.

Things in life don't always happen as we would like them to, but they almost always work out for the best.

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I have been a shy redheaded woman all my life and have observed my hair color to be off-putting to the opposite sex. Maybe I'm projecting my own insecurities, but it seems like my hair color turns heads but repels any actual contact or interest. I am stared at, but never approached.

Why is that? Is it my redheadedness or how awfully shy I might be?

Not at all, the opposite actually.
Hey me up let's chat

THAT IS MY PREFERENCE.

I love dating a true redhead but it's so hard to find a natural redhead these days. Honestly if the right redhead ever came around me and was truly interested in being with me and could start off as being discreet since I am married, but in a sexless marriage and well if I was to find a redhead who wanted to be discreet. And maybe was wanting more than just sex with me was interesting in having a long term relationship with me and wanted to have sex daily then I guess I would be getting a divorce and I would be spoiling this new sexy woman and making her scream loud as hell in the bedroom 24/7. And I would truly be fuckin her on a regular basis and making her squirt all over my huge thick long c*ck every day and night baby girl. Seriously cause I have a 9.3 Inch d*ck and I would love to truly meet someone who wants to have a long term relationship on the side of my sexless marriage seriously! I don't mind if you are not in the same state as me cause we can have some phone sex with each other and well we can have a lot of fun times with each other cause I would love to be fuckin the hell out of my sexy woman on the side and truly I would love for her to be a sexy natural redhead. So question for you now if you were my woman and you just met me say in the mall and I took you out to say dinner and drinks and we ended up at my place and put on Netflix and we're kissing cuddling under the covers and you were interested in having fun and I pulled out my very huge thick long p*nis what would you have said to me sweetheart seriously? Would you have said that is too big you ain't putting that in me or would you have asked me to give it to you very gentle until you were interested in being pounded by my thick long c*ck baby girl seriously! What would you do if I pulled it out and it was hard and you see it is as long as a 1 liter soda bottle and about as thick as a roll of tissue paper? What would you have said to me if I was there and this had happened baby girl seriously love to know! So message me back with your answer baby girl seriously.

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I have been a shy redheaded woman all my life and have observed my hair color to be off-putting to the opposite sex. Maybe I'm projecting my own insecurities, but it seems like my hair color turns heads but repels any actual contact or interest. I am stared at, but never approached.

Why is that? Is it my redheadedness or how awfully shy I might be?

I for one love red Headed woman ! blonds are noticed , Red Heads are remembered ! I am an older gentleman and feel intimidated about approaching a lady , I am afraid that i might be seen as a threat . It would be nice if some how women were not afraid to approach a man they were attracted to . I have an extremely fragile feeling of self worth and are afraid to approach a woman in public . I hope things improve for you and that you find the man you are looking for .