Marcus Neo
Author Bio:
Marcus publishes psychologically validated dating and relationship advice helping hundreds make real change in their relationships at www.marcusneo.com.
My Social Network:My Posts:
- Tried-and Tested Dating Tips for the Socially Awkward Guy - Are you one of those guys who can’t bring yourself to chat up a girl let alone ask her out on a date? You’re not alone. The good news however is that there are strategies you could use to get your confidence back. And soon, you’ll be approaching a hundred girls a day!
- Set Boundaries Earlier on in Relationships, and Save Yourself Heartache, Energy and Money - The internet is filed with articles about the importance of setting boundaries. Well-meaning as they are, most don’t paint a clear picture of how boundaries actually work, and more importantly, why we willingly relinquish power and our self-respect to partners. I've heard of countless stories of guys who failed to read the red flags and set boundaries, all because they feared their women would leave them. But guess what, you’re probably better off without a woman who displays these signs.
- No Need for a Contrarian Stance Against Gender Stereotypes in Dating - Traditional gender stereotypes are a huge talking point in the last century. Females are wearing jeans, cutting their hair short, being highly educated and taking up roles in the workforce. There’s nothing wrong with that. In fact, I look up to women that work. They aren't supposed to be ‘kept in the kitchen’, unlike traditional beliefs and views. To quote Leo Tolstoy, ‘nothing is so necessary for a young man as the company of intelligent women’. On one of my dates...
- Are Your Peers Holding You Back in Your Dating Life? - It’s near impossible to change there’s a problem that isn’t perceived as a problem. I remembered when I told my friends in my earlier days that we could improve our dating lives by recommending them a couple of books. The majority of them scoffed at me. When you are in University or at work, your social relationships are a product of circumstances. You don't really consciously 'work' on your relationships. You just assume they are just going to be there forever...
- 3 Useful Ideas to Better Your Dating Life - I was out with a friend last night at a bar in the city. Three girls sat beside him. I knew he didn't have the balls to say Hi, so I did a mini coaching session right there and gave him a prep talk. I also demonstrated first and spoke to two American girls beside me. If you free yourself, you free others as well. Secondly, I guided him to say Hi to the girls him and got him to introduce me to her friends...
- How to Give Relationship Advice that People Will Actually Take - One of the girls I used to date in Tokyo said to me: "Marcus, you aren't really good at lying you know." I simply laughed it off. I guess being bluntly honest is one of my charms. One of the cornerstone of my dating advice site is based on authenticity. It's the bedrock of how I approached my dating life in the last half of decade. I prided myself on being blunt for years. I would dish out the cold hard truth to everyone that came my way, friends or family, if that meant a strict no or harsh opinion, I would simply blurt it out.