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Are men attracted to natural redheads? Or repelled?

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I have been a shy redheaded woman all my life and have observed my hair color to be off-putting to the opposite sex. Maybe I'm projecting my own insecurities, but it seems like my hair color turns heads but repels any actual contact or interest. I am stared at, but never approached.

Why is that? Is it my redheadedness or how awfully shy I might be?

Resisting telling a terrible redhead joke... Without seeing you it is difficult to say why it might seem to be that way. 1 Possibility, however, is that redheads have a reputation for being a bit firey/saucy in some dumb urban legend type of way. Problem with made up stereotypical garbage like that is that even if it's super rare, there's always at least some truth.
So maybe they're intimidated.

Should women demand to be pleasured first every time before allowing his realse ?

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My take is..... its great to think of your partners needs but in my case I hate when guy try and last 3 hours. Its my goal to make a guy c*m. that excites me . If a guy doesnt c*m then its a bad experience for me. Ill take a guy cumming quick over the 3 hour work out. I can always suck a guy hard again for round 2 :)

Understandable reasoning, but I'm not sure that's where he was going with the question. My greatest turn on is giving a woman pleasure, and as a gentleman it's ladies first. Not ladies only, just first. Personally I go for 2/3 for her before I get my first. Mouth, fingers, then actual sex (order is variable, maybe toys for variety). Each o*gasm coming from stimulating different areas. or different ways. Ensuring that our partners get to climax doesn't automatically mean we're trying to run a marathon. It only means we want to make sure the that nobody doesn't climax. I believe that was what his question is, is it better for a guy to make sure the woman gets to c*m first.
My personal normal is listed above, however, I'd also say predictable means it's a routine, and routines get boring. Sometimes you both win, sometimes only 1 person does. Variety is good, doing the same thing repeatedly can become a turn off. Also, as Tish kinda indicated, sometimes it's not about both. Sometimes it's one person wanting to please the other without anything in return. Let them. Then you can do it for them later. Basically, yes, make sure the woman gets to have fun to, but don't turn it into a mandatory action.

Gangbang

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I think I want that to happen to me

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I have the same fantasy :)

I could be wrong... However, I'm pretty certain that if you went to an adult club, swinger club, or even asked here, that you wouldn't have any problem making it happen If you decide to. Especially if you are the woman shown in your profile pics. Even if you're not, if you're a woman, have boobs, and make it known you want multiple guys... Odds are fairly decent you could find volunteers.

Straight curious pnp

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its cuz there isnt enough women to f*ck and party with plus when your spun sometime u just wanna feel the same thing she gets i mean when your high and fucking a girl in the a** if you want it in the a** your gay its anatomy not sexuality lesbians us big a** strap ons so why dont people accuse them of being straight

Some basic anatomy research would help you understand how this statement is wrong. For one, Men have a prostate. Doctor's don't put their finger up your but because they're secretly seeing if all guys are gay, orbtrying to make all men gay. They're checking the Prostate. Little gland that has a lot of control over erections, your ability to actually c*m (produces fluid), ability to pee... It's a busy little gland.
One such function is it can be stimulated, without any other sexual stimulation, and give an o*gasm. Some guys are more sensitive than others, some don't like having it physically stimulated...
Here's where the conversation starts.
Meth is known for stimulating the Prostate. Especially if done intravenously. Guy nuts with no physical touching/stimulation. Instant limp, leaking, noodle.
I'm not going to tell anyone what to think, or how to look at the situation, but this is how I look at it.
This is my body. A little research tells me that there are spots on and in my body that if they're stimulated right, I get sensation/s I like. Combine a couple stimulating effects and it can be really good. So, I'm pretty chill and open about it with my sexual partners. I'm not the biggest fan of an*l sex, I have zero sexual arousal when I think of other men, but I can enjoy my prostate being stimulated by a couple fingers, prostate toy, or rim job. I have zero interest in being penetrated by another guy, having an*l sex with a man, kissing a guy, sucking a d*ck, or even being pegged by a woman. In other words, most definitely NOT gay, or bi.
Understanding and excepting my body is very different than being naivete enough to believe that if I get pleasure from anything except, o*al or vaginal sex, I must secretly be gay or Bi. So secret even I didn't, and still don't know it.
There are plenty guys who are part of this, "man club" that came/come up with these rules of what a man is, what men can like, what's magically gay that day. You like pink? Homo. Speak with a lisp? Fag. Can dance, are flexible, graceful, gentle...
Regardless, one phrase that I picked up in the Military is, "It ain't gay if you're the one being sucked, or doing the fucking."
Stupid, I know, but carries a secret kernel of truth. I've been in MMF and FFM threesomes. I even had a dude suck on my d*ck. I just made it clear at the beginning I don't want to sexually touch, feel, suck, taste... Anything about another guy, they respected that and knew I wasn't even trying to give them a hand up if we were switching positions.
Long and short: If it feels good, it feels good. It won't feel good to all. Some women like an*l, others don't. Some women can squirt, most can't. You can give some women an o*gasm from just the nipples, ear, lower back...
Some guys can and will enjoy their prostate being stimulated, or having there a** licked. Others won't. By my reasoning, if you aren't sexually attracted to the same sex... You're not gay or bi, you're just another unique human that enjoys something someone else doesn't.

Straight curious pnp

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I really enjoy partying with straight men
I just wish that some pnp straight men would realize that after the party...you're still fuckin straight!!

Maybe so, but a threesome is the way to make that happen. Having a woman helps the guys relax, and as long as it's clear that they don't, per se, have to do anything to you, just enjoy the experience is also a good way to go.