Thom_w: Let's meet and see where it goes

Basic:

74 year old Man, 5'7" (170 cm)

Seeking:

Woman, for Long Term Relationship

Ethnicity:

Caucasian

Body Type:

Thin

Personality:

Hopeless Romantic

City:

San Jose, California, United States

Profession:

Stationary Engineer

Education:

Some College/University

Religion:

Non-religious

Misc:

Non-smoker, Drinks Sometimes, No Drugs

Match Summary:

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More Details:

Martial Status:

Widowed

Hair Color:

Brown

Eye Color:

Hazel

Longest Relationship:

Over 30 years

Second Language:

No Second Language

My Exercise Habits:

1-2 Times Per Week

Has Children?

Want Children?

Undecided

Has Pets?

Birds

Has Car?

Yes

Political Views:

Liberal

Postal Zip Code Area:

95111, CA

About Me:

Hi,
I'm slim to average build, I have all my hair with very little gray. I like country, blue grass, new grass, folk music, and some rock. I've been a Grateful Dead fan since 1973. I probably have 2 or 3 drinks a week, but if you are someone who shouldn't be around alcohol, it's not real important to me. I'm somewhat shy until I get to know someone. I have somewhat strong political beliefs, and I'm willing to discuss politics, but since neither of us have any power other than our own votes, I refuse to fight over politics. If your politics are different than mine, that's your right. If we can't discuss politics without fighting about it, we don't have to discuss them. I don't believe I am always right and if you disagree you must be wrong. I'm a bit messy and because I've never had to keep house in the past, I'm not very good at it. Obviously I ramble a bit. I don't really know if this really tells who I am, so we should meet and see what happens. If there is no attraction, then oh well, but we won't get to find out if we don't try. I've been married for forty years and only been single for a couple of years, so this is all new to me. Hopefully I'm more interesting in person than I think I am in writing.

My Ideal Match:

I'm looking for someone who is kind, fun, comfortable to be with. If you can, and do cook, that would be a plus, but if not, that's Ok. I'd like a long term intimate relationship, but that can take time to develop. We could meet for drinks, or coffee, or something else you want to do. If I do something that irritates you I want you to tell me rather than holding it in and letting it fester. We are only talking about meeting for the first time, so we can figure this out as it goes, if it goes. If you're just looking for a little fun, that's Ok, but be honest about it. I'm 5'7". If you are taller than I am, that's Ok. I think sweet is very attractive. I don't know if age is important, as long as we can relate, but we can figure that out. I'm not really looking for a one night stand, or short fling, but if that's what you have to offer, I'm Ok with it. If we become partners, we'll be partner with all that entails, but if you ask me to help you financially while we are just getting to know each other that will be a huge red flag. When we have exchanged a few texts but never even met, don't tell me I'm the love of your life and you can't live without me. If things go right I may become that, but it sure should take more than a few texts. I'm not a cynic, but experience on this site has made me want to say that if you are here to make money, I will be a waste of your time. You may be able to hurt me, but it won't profit you. If you aren't willing to post a picture of yourself, the chances of me being interested are greatly reduced. It's not because I want to see if your looks meet my standards, I have no such standards. It's much harder to relate without a picture. Looks probably make some difference, but they make a whole lot less difference than many other traits. I think anything else can be discussed if you are interested.

Interests / Keywords:

romance going to fairs listening to kpfa kkup kpig music system walking in the park having a garden

My Dating Discussions & Site Activity:

19 Forum Posts

Thom_w San Jose, California, USA

Feb 6, 2025 6:10 PM GMT

Does this site suck?
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Vote. Does this site suck? Yes or no?

SonyaLynn,
Have you considered extending your mileage, and age limitations?

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Thom_w San Jose, California, USA

Nov 16, 2024 12:06 AM GMT

No Vaxx??? No Groceries or Gas in Aurangabad District in India
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Philadelphia 12/13/2021 "You will need to be fully vaccinated against COVID to enter any establishment that serves food in Philly"

Hello how are you
Well, it's November 2024. What happened to the vaccine killing everyone off? Or did it just kill brains? That would certainly explain the election.

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Thom_w San Jose, California, USA

Nov 12, 2024 5:10 PM GMT

The universe
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When my daughter graduated from highschool the parents were asked to write ' love letters' to their graduates. I described my lover for as; like the Big Bang. Ever growing - ever expanding. Only my daughter got it. ??? What in the world were they teaching in science to highschool kids in those days???
I.wonder what they teach in highschool science now.
Any insight out there?

I think it depends on what state you are in. In some states I believe the best books are being burned. I guess it doesn't matter, the election tells me no one was reading anyway. Some of this thread reminds me of when I was god and everything was happening in my brain. But then my bottle of nitrous oxide ran empty. I keep looking for a picture of Rod Serling on this thread, or maybe a statement to the effect of "do not adjust your vertical, do not adjust your horizontal.

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Thom_w San Jose, California, USA

Oct 20, 2024 7:12 PM GMT

Dating Over 50 stinks.....LOL
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this dating thing over 50 and starting out again kinda stinks.....LOL, anyone else running into this?

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since about 15 years ago dating changed....datings only for men who own everything are rich and dont worship God...

Those who do the opposite women just hate....

The problem isnt men...is the mind of the women...you all think men are required to do shit....but we aint yo....that why yalls single...and live with cats....welcome to future welcome to the truth...women....usually to dumb to get a decent man....end of story....and yall know Im right...i MEAN CMON women they wont even take a step in the right direction for the last 15 years lmao

None buy their own cars that THEY work for...men do...parents do...someone else does thats NOT the female usually....men dont want a weak a** woman...nor a fricken fat a** lazy one either....

Ive been single 14 years going on 15 with VERY brief women not adding up interrupting...it is impossible the way the world is to find a good woman...becuase...there just are none....my mother aunts sister cousins blah blah blah on and on all just the exact same greedy a** pu**y totin bittches....f*ck yall I tried...you didnt....you wanna get real? 50....try 18....pathetic...women really are..

So it has to be the women, it couldn't be you. My, how enlightened you are. Walmart sells some pretty decent mirrors for not too much money. I don't know that you can really see attitude in a mirror, but you need to start somewhere.

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Thom_w San Jose, California, USA

Oct 9, 2024 12:00 PM GMT

Ohio pnp?
Quote:
Don't trust this whore.

She is a lier and a thief and stole $400 from me

Hey, that, and going bald, and losing your teeth, is what that stuff is known for, so what did you expect? There are probably people who use it without it messing up their life, but I've never known one. I'm not anti drug, and I don't even believe in souls, but that one steals your soul.

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