Searcher77: Friends first, maybe more later

I am a kind, caring man, on the quiet side until I get to know someone. Very loyal to the right woman, if she is kind and caring and understanding. I like to work out, watch movies(love to cuddle and hold hands with a woman), listen to music, play PC games(Dragon Age series of games is my favorite) and learn how to protect and improve my health as much as I can. There is so much more to tell, but don't want to make this too long. And I do have photos of myself I can share, if you think we might be a match. Someone asked me, why don't I have any pets. The reason is because I live in an apartment where pets are not allowed, but the no pets rule is not the reason I moved here

Looking for friends first, and see where things go. My wife is in very poor health(in her 40's) and does not seem to care and is not listening to her doctors or to me and I worry she will not be around much longer. I have done everything I can do to try to help her, to offer her advice that might help her, but she won't listen. I have learned a very hard lesson. Never get into a serious relationship with a woman who does not care about her health and won't do what's necessary to protect and maintain her health(it's different if a woman is reasonably doing all she can do and something bad happens anyway). It has been so painful and stressful watching my wife go downhill when she could have changed her diet to be more healthy and started exercising to improve her health, but she would not do it. She would rather sit on the couch all day and eat junk food and drink pepsi and become obese and sabotage her health to the point she is about to send herself to an early grave. So, needless to say, I am preparing to start over with a woman who actually cares about her health, who wants to be healthy and active and live as long as possible, in the best health possible. I myself am health conscious and like to exercise and take vitamins and supplements every day to try to protect my health. I am willing to consider a woman who is not healthy currently, but sincerely wants to learn to do what's necessary to improve her health as much as possible. I have spent years researching how to protect and maintain my health and hope you will want to do the same. I am not looking for perfection though as I am not perfect myself. I want a woman who is kind, caring and loyal, someone who would never even think of stealing from me or taking advantage of me, someone I can be with for the next 40-50 years. A loving, caring relationship that will stand the test of time. I admire women who are outgoing and extroverts, but if you are a shy introverted type woman, it's ok. I am a non-smoker and only looking for a non-smoker and someone who does not use illegal drugs. If you are into doing illegal things or contemplating it, please look elsewhere. I don't want to get involved in anything illegal. No alcoholics either. Responsible drinking is ok, but if you drink to the point you hurl, please pass me by. After I got married to my wife, I found out she was unable to have kids and I would not leave her over that, but I always wanted kids, so if you are still able to have kids and want kids, that would be a big plus. Also, if you have no income and have no real prospects of getting any income, my heart goes out to you, but please pass me by. I have income of my own, but it is not really enough to pay all the bills by myself over the long term. I have tried to take care of my wife for many years with her having zero income but can no longer afford to take care of someone who has no income of their own. If you are bi or bi-curious, no need to fear, I am open-minded about it. If you own pitbulls or want to own pitbulls, please pass me by. Also, if you contact me and I can tell you have not bothered to read my profile here, I won't be inclined to reply to you. If you read this far and are still interested, don't be shy, send me a message and let's get to know each other.