How long does it take to mend a broken heart? (21)

I’ve had my heart broken several times in the past and now that I’ve grown more mature I’m trying to remember how long it took me to heal after each heart break.

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I’ve had my heart broken several times in the past and now that I’ve grown more mature I’m trying to remember how long it took me to heal after each heart break.

It takes as long as it takes. There are so many variable only your best guess based on experience would even be and educated guess. Example: I was married for 5 years after dating for just over 1 year. Then one morning she didn't wake up. 10 years later I started to be able to tell that my mourning stage was starting to lift. That was 2 years ago, and it's not much better, but I finally am able to admit to myself I need human interaction on a physical lever. (I didn't kiss, date, screw or anything to anyone since she passed for a decade, i had just lost interest in life) but now. 12 years after losing her, I am on 3 "dating sites" and finding it overwhelming and 1000 times more difficult than I imagined. But I need to feel something again.

Hope that helped

Gosh, your luxury assault suburban truck ran out of batteries .... maybe you can steel energy from my star wars toys Chrissend! It's almost like being sprinkled, huh girl!

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I’ve had my heart broken several times in the past and now that I’ve grown more mature I’m trying to remember how long it took me to heal after each heart break.

Apparently I am Not Allowedered To Share Kentucky Fried Finger Flookin' .... Darn It!

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I’ve had my heart broken several times in the past and now that I’ve grown more mature I’m trying to remember how long it took me to heal after each heart break.

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It takes as long as it takes. There are so many variable only your best guess based on experience would even be and educated guess. Example: I was married for 5 years after dating for just over 1 year. Then one morning she didn't wake up. 10 years later I started to be able to tell that my mourning stage was starting to lift. That was 2 years ago, and it's not much better, but I finally am able to admit to myself I need human interaction on a physical lever. (I didn't kiss, date, screw or anything to anyone since she passed for a decade, i had just lost interest in life) but now. 12 years after losing her, I am on 3 "dating sites" and finding it overwhelming and 1000 times more difficult than I imagined. But I need to feel something again.

Hope that helped

Am I allowed to passively aggresively, make enemies at this Rave? Or .....

There is now psychological data with statistics that say... how ever long in said relationship one I'm decide the length of the relationship by 2, example: 10 year marriage, the wife has an affair, husband files for divorce, in average UT took 5 years for him to finally not have the odd here and there pop up random emotions.

Continued; ultimately bro it comes down to you.
I was so in love with my ex wife when ever we would be having out dancing or to dinner I've had random women from older to younger contented that they could see how much I loved her, one said it was how I looked at her, another by the way I played around with her.
I absolutely adored her, I ended the relationship, it almost killed me, my point to this crap is, your pain is yours, the value place upon the pain is the merit it takes on. You ever need to talk hit me up.

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I’ve had my heart broken several times in the past and now that I’ve grown more mature I’m trying to remember how long it took me to heal after each heart break.

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It takes as long as it takes. There are so many variable only your best guess based on experience would even be and educated guess. Example: I was married for 5 years after dating for just over 1 year. Then one morning she didn't wake up. 10 years later I started to be able to tell that my mourning stage was starting to lift. That was 2 years ago, and it's not much better, but I finally am able to admit to myself I need human interaction on a physical lever. (I didn't kiss, date, screw or anything to anyone since she passed for a decade, i had just lost interest in life) but now. 12 years after losing her, I am on 3 "dating sites" and finding it overwhelming and 1000 times more difficult than I imagined. But I need to feel something again.

Hope that helped

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Am I allowed to passively aggresively, make enemies at this Rave? Or .....

Wowww! What a living walking STONE COLD EVIL DOG TERD YOU ARE Fukr. Grow the hell up birdbrains! Sicko.

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I’ve had my heart broken several times in the past and now that I’ve grown more mature I’m trying to remember how long it took me to heal after each heart break.

The Truth is...everyone's reactions and emotions vary and how much effort one puts in to the loss or mistreatment of others unto one's heart or feelings is based off of their exposure and involvement in the way that the relationship ended and how we all must get past history and past events.
In order to grow, we must be willing and able to change for ourselves in what must be seen as better development...rather it be from or to change.
Only once we see that we are all solitary beings seeking others for attention can we move on productively and effectively or efficiently.
Positivity comes from experience and learning...
Remember that.
You are either your own best friend and lover or you are seeking approval.
Be proud of who you are because you are unique...
Don't be greedy or selfish, it shows that you are incompetent and incomplete.
Grow and live inside...all else comes naturally.

I'm going on 5 years now...lost my soul mate and life still isn't better. That's why I joined here to see if I could mend the tear...

There's no time limit on anything especially have your heart broken. You just have to sat to yourself lesson taught lesson learned and move on. But you will always be lery and be on your guard so you don't get hurt again

For me? Exactly 3 bjs.

Broken heart....what is that...? Being a boy my mom left at some perverts trailer she met at the bar when I was 4 for heroin and cash she left me their a week while they fucked me my uncle was then sent to pick me up took me home and he fucked me by age 8 I began to like it had been doing cocaine since my 7th birthday free basing I had done 96 LSD trips could roll you a joint at age 6
What cures a broken heart?....sodomy ! Hard and without mercy with a stranger perhaps this freak>🗿or🃏

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I’ve had my heart broken several times in the past and now that I’ve grown more mature I’m trying to remember how long it took me to heal after each heart break.

Well, that's all up to the person who's heart is broken. Over a heart throb (boyfriend or girlfriend) I'm sure it seems to take forever. I had a boyfriend like that once. We tried to get back together and it just didn't work out so the pain continues. I'm trying to find a new love, but it's so difficult. Just hang in there and never drop your standards for yourself because you're worth it. No one ever said life was easy, just rewarding when things go your way. Good luck on finding your cure......Hugs,
Crystal

I have imagined it in my head for hundreds of times, played it over and over again. I know exactly how things will end. How the disappointment, hurt and sadness is going to pierce its way into my heart after they leave. On one hand, if we break something in time, it will eventually shatter. However, on the other hand, our bodies are designed to heal and repair themselves. So, while we may break ourselves physically, we will eventually heal and be whole again.

All the way up till you get a mouth full of c*m then all is forgotten. Trust me I know.

I've had some broken hearts in the past but the one that really has affected me the most happened a few days shy going on 3 years... my late husband passed away March 15th 2022 and I'm still not over it... my momma fur baby passed away and hour before he died... she passed away in his arms and then he passed... my baby fur girl passed away 3 days after they did I'm taking it that she had a broken heart considering that her Momma and her non fur daddy was no longer there for her (she was his emotional support dog)... everyone is so different when it comes to healing... death depends on how close you were to that person, a love lose will go away pretty quick when you understand what happened and you hopefully find that special someone... just stay strong and heal at your own pace... because you are you and unique and special no one can really tell you how long it will take for your heart to heal

Depends upon the favor of God. (Genesis 41:51, Revelation 7:17 and Revelation 21:4

“It is because God has made me forget all my trouble.” (Genesis 41:51)

Some wounds don't heal. But God can heal them.

I would say getting a c*ck back inside of you is the most important thing to do to get over a broken heart. When he is hitting home and shoots c*m there is no way you could think about anything else. Just my thoughts.

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I’ve had my heart broken several times in the past and now that I’ve grown more mature I’m trying to remember how long it took me to heal after each heart break.

Don’t be quick to get back up, grieving is an amazingly useful experience.

The Well of Grief

Those who will not slip beneath
    the still surface on the well of grief,

turning down through its black water
    to the place we cannot breathe,

will never know the source from which we
drink, the secret water, cold and clear,

nor find in the darkness glimmering,
    the small round coins, thrown by those who wished for something else.


https://allpoetry.com/poem/15379848-The-well-of-grief-by-David-Whyte