Meet up nightmare (7)

I took a chance. Talked on the phone for several weeks befor I drove down for Thanksgiving at their home.

Im not a dirty person. My mom lived life that on any given moment the magazine photo shoot from BetterHomes&Garden would pop in unanounced to do a photo of our home.. Im not that bad but I am clean.

The carpets were BLACK from not being cleaned or vacuum in years.
I dont smoke. And 3 people sat puffing away on cigarettes. My athsma is still flaired up.
Im a CDL driver. They do random drug screenings at my company..
This guy lights up a bong and proceeded to get high for 20 minutes. Filling the place with pot smoke..
I fear to go into the kitchen but ask his roommates girlfriend if I can help. Im given a list of items needed and gladly run to the store...yes i paid out of my pocket.
I should have just kept driving my little but back to my home.
After the meal was set out.. the roommates Girlfriend goes to lay down. So I get my but in gear to do the dishes and put food away..
Omg I had to use the restroom.. the bathroom was so filthy I wanted to throw up..
I finally just wipe my hands on my jeans cause I couldnt find a clean towel in there.
Come out to gather my purse..
The roommate goes after me for putting any of the food in containers and back in the fridge because he didn't want to eat cold leftovers.
The date texted me last night.. told me off because I didnt stay the weekend and sleep with him..
Omg It was a nightmare. I wont sleep with someone on a first date I made that clear many times.

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I took a chance. Talked on the phone for several weeks befor I drove down for Thanksgiving at their home.

Im not a dirty person. My mom lived life that on any given moment the magazine photo shoot from BetterHomes&Garden would pop in unanounced to do a photo of our home.. Im not that bad but I am clean.

The carpets were BLACK from not being cleaned or vacuum in years.
I dont smoke. And 3 people sat puffing away on cigarettes. My athsma is still flaired up.
Im a CDL driver. They do random drug screenings at my company..
This guy lights up a bong and proceeded to get high for 20 minutes. Filling the place with pot smoke..
I fear to go into the kitchen but ask his roommates girlfriend if I can help. Im given a list of items needed and gladly run to the store...yes i paid out of my pocket.
I should have just kept driving my little but back to my home.
After the meal was set out.. the roommates Girlfriend goes to lay down. So I get my but in gear to do the dishes and put food away..
Omg I had to use the restroom.. the bathroom was so filthy I wanted to throw up..
I finally just wipe my hands on my jeans cause I couldnt find a clean towel in there.
Come out to gather my purse..
The roommate goes after me for putting any of the food in containers and back in the fridge because he didn't want to eat cold leftovers.
The date texted me last night.. told me off because I didnt stay the weekend and sleep with him..
Omg It was a nightmare. I wont sleep with someone on a first date I made that clear many times.

omg,,, i would have turned , ran as fast as possible and yellwd pigs had that been me

if you want funguys, where some polyester.

I tried to go to McDonalds the other day. My order was plain: McDouble, Small Fries, and a Senior Coke... It Was Like I Was Nepoleon Rolling Up To The Hood! Damn, I'm LOVIN' IT!

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I took a chance. Talked on the phone for several weeks befor I drove down for Thanksgiving at their home.

Im not a dirty person. My mom lived life that on any given moment the magazine photo shoot from BetterHomes&Garden would pop in unanounced to do a photo of our home.. Im not that bad but I am clean.

The carpets were BLACK from not being cleaned or vacuum in years.
I dont smoke. And 3 people sat puffing away on cigarettes. My athsma is still flaired up.
Im a CDL driver. They do random drug screenings at my company..
This guy lights up a bong and proceeded to get high for 20 minutes. Filling the place with pot smoke..
I fear to go into the kitchen but ask his roommates girlfriend if I can help. Im given a list of items needed and gladly run to the store...yes i paid out of my pocket.
I should have just kept driving my little but back to my home.
After the meal was set out.. the roommates Girlfriend goes to lay down. So I get my but in gear to do the dishes and put food away..
Omg I had to use the restroom.. the bathroom was so filthy I wanted to throw up..
I finally just wipe my hands on my jeans cause I couldnt find a clean towel in there.
Come out to gather my purse..
The roommate goes after me for putting any of the food in containers and back in the fridge because he didn't want to eat cold leftovers.
The date texted me last night.. told me off because I didnt stay the weekend and sleep with him..
Omg It was a nightmare. I wont sleep with someone on a first date I made that clear many times.

It's a shame you had to go through this horrible experience. I hope things take a turn for the better.

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I took a chance. Talked on the phone for several weeks befor I drove down for Thanksgiving at their home.

Im not a dirty person. My mom lived life that on any given moment the magazine photo shoot from BetterHomes&Garden would pop in unanounced to do a photo of our home.. Im not that bad but I am clean.

The carpets were BLACK from not being cleaned or vacuum in years.
I dont smoke. And 3 people sat puffing away on cigarettes. My athsma is still flaired up.
Im a CDL driver. They do random drug screenings at my company..
This guy lights up a bong and proceeded to get high for 20 minutes. Filling the place with pot smoke..
I fear to go into the kitchen but ask his roommates girlfriend if I can help. Im given a list of items needed and gladly run to the store...yes i paid out of my pocket.
I should have just kept driving my little but back to my home.
After the meal was set out.. the roommates Girlfriend goes to lay down. So I get my but in gear to do the dishes and put food away..
Omg I had to use the restroom.. the bathroom was so filthy I wanted to throw up..
I finally just wipe my hands on my jeans cause I couldnt find a clean towel in there.
Come out to gather my purse..
The roommate goes after me for putting any of the food in containers and back in the fridge because he didn't want to eat cold leftovers.
The date texted me last night.. told me off because I didnt stay the weekend and sleep with him..
Omg It was a nightmare. I wont sleep with someone on a first date I made that clear many times.

You just havent met the right guy yet. =P I dont understand how everybody be all like "dates before mates" Yea! Like in 1920 maybe..
If you like the guy and are attracted to him, and hes legit honest and you know it in your bones, those are really good signs that this relation will go further. Not saying you HAVE to sleep with him, just consider it. Ya never know, he might be the best thing that ever happened to you in your whole life and he got away..

I learned in life be honest, forward, know what you want is a big one.. dont play games, and you'll go far in this world, be simple, civil and playful.
Relationships take effort to be successful, but first you have to show him that your worth making effort for, and not just by laughs and mental connection, MAKE HIM WANT YOU, make YOU all he thinks about.. your not gonna do that with a few dinner dates, laughs and a hug bae..

PHYSICAL/EMOTIONAL CONNECTION is important, people have COMPLETELY forgotten that, people are so shallow these days.
I make a mental connection with alot of people I meet, it doesnt mean theyre a good mate for me, sometimes people just mentally connect and not physically dont ya know? Theyre called (wait for it..)
"Friends."

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I took a chance. Talked on the phone for several weeks befor I drove down for Thanksgiving at their home.

Im not a dirty person. My mom lived life that on any given moment the magazine photo shoot from BetterHomes&Garden would pop in unanounced to do a photo of our home.. Im not that bad but I am clean.

The carpets were BLACK from not being cleaned or vacuum in years.
I dont smoke. And 3 people sat puffing away on cigarettes. My athsma is still flaired up.
Im a CDL driver. They do random drug screenings at my company..
This guy lights up a bong and proceeded to get high for 20 minutes. Filling the place with pot smoke..
I fear to go into the kitchen but ask his roommates girlfriend if I can help. Im given a list of items needed and gladly run to the store...yes i paid out of my pocket.
I should have just kept driving my little but back to my home.
After the meal was set out.. the roommates Girlfriend goes to lay down. So I get my but in gear to do the dishes and put food away..
Omg I had to use the restroom.. the bathroom was so filthy I wanted to throw up..
I finally just wipe my hands on my jeans cause I couldnt find a clean towel in there.
Come out to gather my purse..
The roommate goes after me for putting any of the food in containers and back in the fridge because he didn't want to eat cold leftovers.
The date texted me last night.. told me off because I didnt stay the weekend and sleep with him..
Omg It was a nightmare. I wont sleep with someone on a first date I made that clear many times.

Quote:
You just havent met the right guy yet. =P I dont understand how everybody be all like "dates before mates" Yea! Like in 1920 maybe..
If you like the guy and are attracted to him, and hes legit honest and you know it in your bones, those are really good signs that this relation will go further. Not saying you HAVE to sleep with him, just consider it. Ya never know, he might be the best thing that ever happened to you in your whole life and he got away..

I learned in life be honest, forward, know what you want is a big one.. dont play games, and you'll go far in this world, be simple, civil and playful.
Relationships take effort to be successful, but first you have to show him that your worth making effort for, and not just by laughs and mental connection, MAKE HIM WANT YOU, make YOU all he thinks about.. your not gonna do that with a few dinner dates, laughs and a hug bae..

PHYSICAL/EMOTIONAL CONNECTION is important, people have COMPLETELY forgotten that, people are so shallow these days.
I make a mental connection with alot of people I meet, it doesnt mean theyre a good mate for me, sometimes people just mentally connect and not physically dont ya know? Theyre called (wait for it..)
"Friends."

I'm sure you won't be getting a date with this girl.