Affairs - Good or Bad (9)

I've had friends in long term marriages where one of the two people no longer stay interested in having physical intimacy. For one of them them, have an extra-marital partner seems to have kept that part satisfied, while staying committed to their spouse in all other ways. For my other friend (he lost interest but was a good husband in all other ways) she was the one who found someone to satisfy her physically.

I fall into that :love my wife of 39 year's, but she's lost interest in sex, and isn't really driven to get better. I won't leave her, but there's an important piece that's not satisfied and driving me crazy. Thoughts?

Have you told her that you would like to open your relationship so that you can get that intimacy need your craving met?

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Have you told her that you would like to open your relationship so that you can get that intimacy need your craving met?

Yes - and I just got a "how could you even think that?" kind of look... Thanks for asking ..

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I've had friends in long term marriages where one of the two people no longer stay interested in having physical intimacy. For one of them them, have an extra-marital partner seems to have kept that part satisfied, while staying committed to their spouse in all other ways. For my other friend (he lost interest but was a good husband in all other ways) she was the one who found someone to satisfy her physically.

I fall into that :love my wife of 39 year's, but she's lost interest in sex, and isn't really driven to get better. I won't leave her, but there's an important piece that's not satisfied and driving me crazy. Thoughts?

Marriage isn’t just about sex but intimacy and connection. Release. It’s not fair when I hear that one person in the marriage is not wanting sex AT ALL. I don’t think it’s fair to cheat but I’m not the married, sexless one. Obviously every marriage and situation is different but I could not be in a sexless relationship unless we had an understanding.

Bad, Bad and even more Bad idea!!

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Have you told her that you would like to open your relationship so that you can get that intimacy need your craving met?

Yes I recently asked her. She said no. She’s worried I would leave her for other woman.

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Have you told her that you would like to open your relationship so that you can get that intimacy need your craving met?

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Yes I recently asked her. She said no. She’s worried I would leave her for other woman.

Today she said yes to threesome. Is there any hot white females in north Alabama that’s interested in us?

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Have you told her that you would like to open your relationship so that you can get that intimacy need your craving met?

Yes, I just did. She finally agreed to a threesome. Now I’ve got to find a willing female.

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I've had friends in long term marriages where one of the two people no longer stay interested in having physical intimacy. For one of them them, have an extra-marital partner seems to have kept that part satisfied, while staying committed to their spouse in all other ways. For my other friend (he lost interest but was a good husband in all other ways) she was the one who found someone to satisfy her physically.

I fall into that :love my wife of 39 year's, but she's lost interest in sex, and isn't really driven to get better. I won't leave her, but there's an important piece that's not satisfied and driving me crazy. Thoughts?

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