why do guys always want to go for hours without cumming? (25)

why do guys always want to go for hours without cumming? I understand wanting sex to last and for the stigma of not wanting to c*m too quick, but maybe Im weird but I want guys to c*m. It s my job (so to speak) to make a guy explode. . When guys dont want to it makes me feel Im not doing my job. What say you?

Could be they are wanting you to climax a few times first. Or they have already been with someone hours prior to you and just can't produce anything. Or medications could be another issue. Why not offer them sex for 5 or 10 minutes. Give them a time clock. Even an older guy like me could pop my load in that time frame with a sexy looking lady like you. .

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Could be they are wanting you to climax a few times first. Or they have already been with someone hours prior to you and just can't produce anything. Or medications could be another issue. Why not offer them sex for 5 or 10 minutes. Give them a time clock. Even an older guy like me could pop my load in that time frame with a sexy looking lady like you. .

nice. thats good information. I hope I could make you c*m :)

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why do guys always want to go for hours without cumming? I understand wanting sex to last and for the stigma of not wanting to c*m too quick, but maybe Im weird but I want guys to c*m. It s my job (so to speak) to make a guy explode. . When guys dont want to it makes me feel Im not doing my job. What say you?

At least for me I always want to but when on one, it makes it quite difficult, and it ain't coming quick.

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why do guys always want to go for hours without cumming? I understand wanting sex to last and for the stigma of not wanting to c*m too quick, but maybe Im weird but I want guys to c*m. It s my job (so to speak) to make a guy explode. . When guys dont want to it makes me feel Im not doing my job. What say you?

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At least for me I always want to but when on one, it makes it quite difficult, and it ain't coming quick.

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The older we get the more time that is needed to reload the gun.

I want to see your pleasure it gets me off and the longer I hold back the better it feels and the bigger I get

it builds momentum in the mind, it is the power of man to hold his climax to achieve as many climaxes as a woman can have. Ladies at your climaxally drive us men in bed and if you're not getting that your man is not driven by you but byTHE nut ! Women that are doesn't want long sex you're chasing after a man that wants nothing but a nut. But you women are looking for passion we are called the hourly men we're worried about you climaxes more than anything and give this passion beyond your imagination.

I feel that after taking off our clothes and everything else I wanna go longer mostly because I love having a naked woman in my arms plus I wanna make sure you’re cumming too

Well this is just me speaking when my d*ck is in some hot pu**y or a**hole or mouth the feeling is so amazing an sexy I want it to last as long as the female I'm fucking creams on my d*ck so we both c*m if so happens she cums an I don't then we continue to f*ck until she makes me c*m but if your looking for someone to make c*m hit me up id definitely let you put your c*m making skills to use

If he can come close to cumming and is able to hold off it makes it more intense
The more he can hold it
It keeps building up

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why do guys always want to go for hours without cumming?

You answered the question yourself. If we don't 'last long enough', we feel as though we haven't done the job and you'll go off somewhere else. You have to remember that women are hypergamous and are always looking for the next best thing. Making a girl squirt is a possible solution; especially if done before penetration.

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why do guys always want to go for hours without cumming? I understand wanting sex to last and for the stigma of not wanting to c*m too quick, but maybe Im weird but I want guys to c*m. It s my job (so to speak) to make a guy explode. . When guys dont want to it makes me feel Im not doing my job. What say you?

A little communication wouldn't hurt anything.

because it feels so good.what can you say.or you can talk about and try again tomorrow.its not right to ignore the person you are hammering.

I tend to c*m soon, when totally turned on. However, I enjoy making it a love session, with other times throughout the evening.

I naturally need a long time for loving. Women had told me a minute is too quick for a man to finish. Many women had exclaimed: I love you! I'm cumming, I never met a man like you and more.
My focus is on HER pleasure. The longer I take the more they enjoy....
Some women can take a short time, under twenty minutes is sufficient for them.
Every person is different

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why do guys always want to go for hours without cumming? I understand wanting sex to last and for the stigma of not wanting to c*m too quick, but maybe Im weird but I want guys to c*m. It s my job (so to speak) to make a guy explode. . When guys dont want to it makes me feel Im not doing my job. What say you?

I can’t speak for anyone else but I know if she edges me to right before I c*m then stops then continuously doing this for a while then when I do finally c*m releasing all that built up tension its indescribable

You opened up the floodgates for this question…so to speak. It’s better to prolong the the time to c*m…I want to make sure my woman reaches her climax so I try to prolong the time it takes. makes it more interesting

That sounds like they're edging - or possibly under the influence/hungover.
Edging has two results -a ruined o*gasm, or the climax goes Atomic. More time doing it = more shuddering, golden rain, earth shaking.
Human orgasms have a complex biological timing. Lot going on there. If that timing if thrown off - dude shoots, no explosion of pleasure. Some Dommes have learned how to do that to their subs.

I have no problem cumming. I am not a robot and it is part of the shared experience. That said a good cuddle or foreplay to get going again adds to the length of time. Also when you can make it a few times of timing it together it's on the next level

I have no problem cumming. I am not a robot and it is part of the shared experience. That said a good cuddle or foreplay to get going again adds to the length of time. Also when you can make it a few times of timing it together it's on the next level

There are two common reasons either I don't c*m, or she doesn't climax. The first is mind-altering, such as too much alcohol, street drugs, etc. The second reason has to do with the most significant sex organ any of us has...the brain. When you have healthy sex, it stops (and begins) at a natural point. However, many of us use sex for a variety of reasons, including relaxation and stimulation. If either party is preoccupied or unable to reach that h*rny brain state of stimulation because of external or internal factors (worried about work or don't find the other party stimulating), we could go on and on in the hopes of reaching a plateau. So, I am led to conclude if one goes on and on and doesn't c*m, it's because of a lack of turn-on for the two reasons mentioned. Remember that several common street drugs can provide erotic stimulation, but they cannot change the dominant emotional state of the man or woman who is distracted. Please consider that this is my reasoned opinion as a male and not necessarily universal or applies to everyone.

Very simple answer. Not because I'm so enriched with sex enhancing drugs but I found out, it the journey not the destination.

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why do guys always want to go for hours without cumming? I understand wanting sex to last and for the stigma of not wanting to c*m too quick, but maybe Im weird but I want guys to c*m. It s my job (so to speak) to make a guy explode. . When guys dont want to it makes me feel Im not doing my job. What say you?

i have had several females tell me they dont like the all nighters. Here's my goal with a woman...get her to o*gasm orally, then once or twice after that. i then can let loose and c@m where you like.

Well if you consider the fact that a woman can walk into a bar and advertise that she wants to engage in sex and 99.9 % will have her way. Us men, if following the same criteria, we get hit with cue balls. So we can't afford to do that in such short intervals (we must heal) therefore, not having the opportunity as frequently or so desired we try to make it last as long as we possibly can. Also, there's nothing more embarrassing than engaging in sex at 11:59 and upon completion you look up just in time to see the clock change to 12:00!