3 Must Haves Before You Say "I Do" (2)

Ladies, before taking that final leap and saying "I Do", What are the three MUST HAVES your man has to possess before you will walk down the aisle, take the golden shackle (Ring), and say the two words that will change his life and his bank account forever?

The MUST HAVES can be personal, physical, material, genetic, sexual, or any other trait that you think is important. Please explain why you think these three things are so important. Thanks.

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Ladies, before taking that final leap and saying "I Do", What are the three MUST HAVES your man has to possess before you will walk down the aisle, take the golden shackle (Ring), and say the two words that will change his life and his bank account forever?

The MUST HAVES can be personal, physical, material, genetic, sexual, or any other trait that you think is important. Please explain why you think these three things are so important. Thanks.

1.Tattoos - a minimum of 3 large ones but it's much much better if he's covered in them. Why? It's hot and interesting and the man isn't afraid of commitment.

2. Financial stability - this doesn't mean he has to be filthy rich or anything even close, it just means he isn't constantly broke and unable to be self sustaining. "Comfortable" is the word I'd use. Why? Because I have had relationships where 99% of the stress came from financial insecurity and struggling to make ends meet and it was from the dude not wanting to work or having an addiction of some sort. So when I say financial security, it's not actually about money or equity (of course it's part of it though because that's a big part of survival as a human in this life) , it's more about knowing that many times there's an unmanageable lifestyle hiding behind financial wreckage and I am not compatible with that bullshit.

3. Loyalty- He must adore me (and only me), he must have my back at all times and if he's talking about me it's in a good way because he's proud of me. Absolutely no cheating or even flirting with other women. Period. I don't give a f*ck if he has female friends as long as he's transparent with me and always makes me #1 Why? Take a wild guess...if you guessed that I've been cheated on and lied to and stabbed in the back and verbally abused then you're correct! Never again. I'd rather be single and hang out by myself or with friends than deal with that shit ever again.

Are these 3 things too much to ask for? ..
In return for these 3 things my man would get showered with appreciation and support from me. I cook dinner a minimum of 5 nights a week and am happy to make lunches to go or to eat at home as well as do all the grocery shopping and dishes, I do his laundry and fold his clothes so he's always able to feel good about his appearance and I keep the house clean and organized so he's comfortable and able to relax...yes I'm describing a house wife! Gasp! But I actually have my own business that I run from home and I am a busy lady, so you won't catch me sitting watching soap operas and eating bonbons... I'm an artist and I actually sell my work and create custom orders regularly, I'm an enthusiastic gardener and grow dozens of different veggies every year in my garden so we'll almost always have organic produce to eat, I also like to save money across the board and only shop at thrift stores and flea markets and like to fix broken appliances myself instead of hiring someone... there's so much I bring to the table that would make a man's life so rad, maybe most of all the sex. Lots of passionate sex.

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